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His Eminence Sheikh Nuh, a Truly Good Father and Leader
Author : Dr. Hassan Abu_Arqoub
Date Added : 08-04-2025

Indeed, His Eminence Sheikh Nuh Al-Qudah, may Allah have mercy upon him, was our Sheikh and spiritual father. How often he used to say to the Muftis (those who issue religious edicts): "You are like my sons," and "I am like your father." Yes, he was a father and a leader, and what a good father and leader he was.

Many admirers have spoken about our master, His Eminence, Sheikh Nuh Al-Qudah (may Allah have mercy on him). However, there is an important aspect of his personality that I have not seen clearly addressed — and that is the aspect of leadership.

Leadership means to influence people in such a way that they commit to your message and goals — that is, to lead them toward the objective in order to achieve the desired outcome.

It is no secret that His Eminence, may Allah have mercy on him, was an exceptional leader wherever he went and in every land he visited. He guided everyone who knew him toward seeking the pleasure of Allah, the Almighty, and adhering to His noble Sharia. This was his constant concern throughout his life, which was filled with obedience and devotion.

Undoubtedly, a leader possesses qualities that make him worthy of leading people — and how difficult it is to lead human beings! It is the mission of the Prophets, Messengers, peace be upon them, and the righteous scholars.

Among these qualities are:

First: Truthfulness — It is a moral trait whereby a person's words and state align with reality. Such a person does not know lies, deceit, fraud, or manipulation. Rather, he is frank, sincere, and clear. Allah the Almighty Says (What means): "O you who have believed, fear Allah and be with those who are truthful" [At-Tawbah, 119].

This is how our beloved father and Sheikh, may Allah have mercy on him, was — truthful in his words and actions. He would only issue fatwas that sought the pleasure of Allah, regardless of whether people were pleased with them or not. He even wrote an article titled: "The Mufti is the One Who Gives You a Fatwa That Saves You, Not One That Merely Pleases You."

I recall that his keenness for truthfulness and precision was immense. On a meeting, he confided in me that he wished to send some muftis abroad for study at the expense of certain universities. I asked him: "Why don’t you inform your fellow muftis of your efforts in this regard?" He replied: "No; I’m not yet certain of the success of this endeavor. If I tell them and then fail to accomplish it, they will say that I wasn’t truthful with them. After that, they won’t believe anything I say. They’ll say: "This is just like that previous time…"What an example of leadership that was. Truly, what a leader he was.

Secondly: Trustworthiness: This is a moral quality that enables its possessor to return the rights to their rightful owners and give everyone their due. As Allah, The Almighty Says (What means): "Indeed, Allah commands you to render trusts to whom they are due..." [An-Nisa/58].

It is well known that our late Sheikh, may Allah have mercy on him, was extremely diligent in safeguarding public funds. In an extraordinary instance, rarely seen elsewhere, he returned nearly one million and two hundred thousand dinars from the Department’s (Iftaa` Dept.) budget to the public treasury over the course of two years... Truly, what excellent leadership, and what a remarkable leader.

Thirdly: Patience: A moral quality that enables its possessor to control themselves and their desires.

Our late Sheikh, may Allah have mercy on him, was a role model in patience: patience in worship, in avoiding sin, in facing hardships, and in dealing with people. Allah, The Almighty, Says (What means): "Indeed, the patient will be given their reward without account." [Az-Zumar/10].

He would often be bothered by some people’s questions, actions, and the manner they dealt with him. I would be amazed at his patience. He would look at me, read my mind, and say, "A beautiful patience, and Allah is the One sought for help." He would add, "The leader is like a father to everyone, and a father must be patient with his children." Truly, what an excellent leadership, and what a remarkable leader.

Fourthly: Humility: This is a moral quality that enables its possessor to appreciate and respect others.

Anyone who interacted with our late Sheikh, may Allah have mercy on him, knows that he was a true embodiment of humility. Despite his vast knowledge and high status, he always valued and respected everyone. He would stand to shake hands with anyone who entered his office, despite his old age and difficulty in movement.

He, may Allah have mercy on him, would accept feedback from his sons, the Muftis, and engage in discussions with them. He would even abandon his own opinion if the alternative opinion seemed closer to the truth. His authority never hindered him from accepting and acknowledging the truth. He would always humbly say when discussing with the Muftis: "We are brothers... and I am like your father." Furthermore, if he came across an incorrect or incomplete answer, he would write: "Kindly for discussion," and then discuss it with the person without making them feel they were wrong. He would engage in the discussion as an equal peer, and this was rare.

Moreover, when he would speak on the phone and you asked, "Who is this?" he would simply reply, "Nuh." If he sent a text message, he would sign it with just his name: "Nuh." Truly, this reflects excellent leadership and a noble leader.

Fifth: Respect: This is a moral trait through which people are made to feel important.

Respect was one of the first qualities you would notice when interacting with the late Sheikh, may Allah have mercy on him. He always made those around him feel that they were the most important person in his life, that they were relied upon, and that they were worthy of his trust.

He expressed this in various ways: assigning tasks, seeking advice, or engaging in casual conversation.

The result of this approach was that people's self-confidence would be strengthened, they would feel appreciated, and they would be motivated to give more, continue contributing, and work continuously with this outstanding leader. Truly, this was excellent leadership by a noble leader.

May Allah have mercy on our Sheikh and grant him the highest place in Paradise.

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Summarized Fatawaa

My father has debts and asked me to repay them years ago, and I promised him I would do so upon his death — is it permissible for me to go back on my promise given that I am unable to repay them, especially since he refuses to contribute to repayment on the grounds that the debt has become my responsibility by virtue of my promise?

All praise is due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon our master the Messenger of Allah ﷺ.
The established principle is that a father's debt is to be repaid from his own wealth, if he possesses sufficient means. As for the promise made by the son to repay it on his father's behalf, fulfilling such a promise is strongly recommended, and breaking it is considerably disliked. Shaykh al-Islām Imām al-Nawawī, may Allah have mercy upon him, states: "Fulfilling a promise is emphatically recommended, and breaking it is severely disliked. The evidences for this from the Qurʾān and the Sunnah are well known." [Rawḍat al-Ṭālibīn,Vol. 2/P.278] Shaykh al-Islām Imām Zakariyyā al-Anṣārī, may Allah have mercy upon him, further states: "The reason fulfilling a promise is not obligatory and breaking it is not forbidden is that a promise is in the nature of a gift, and a gift does not become binding except upon receipt." [Asnā al-Maṭālib fī Sharḥ Rawḍ al-Ṭālib,Vol. 2/P.487]
Given that the son does not possess the financial means to fulfil his promise to his father, breaking this promise falls beyond his capacity — and Allah does not burden a soul beyond what it can bear. Since the father himself possesses sufficient wealth to settle his own debt, repayment must be made from his own funds. Should he pass away before doing so, the debt is to be settled from his estate. And Allah the Almighty knows best.

What is the ruling on omitting the prostration of recitation?

Praise be to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon our Master, the Messenger of Allah.
 
The prostration of recitation (Sajdat al-Tilawah) is a Sunnah for both the reader and the listener. There is no sin in omitting it, though doing so results in missing a great reward. Muslim narrated from Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet ﷺ said: 'When the son of Adam recites a verse of prostration and prostrates, Shaytan withdraws weeping, saying: "Woe to him! (and in the narration of Abu Kuraib: "Woe to me!") The son of Adam was commanded to prostrate and he prostrated, so Paradise is his; and I was commanded to prostrate and I refused, so the Fire is mine."'
 
Sheikh al-Islam Imam al-Nawawi (may Allah have mercy on him) stated: 'It is recommended to prostrate immediately after reciting or hearing a verse of prostration. If one delays it but the interval is short, he may still prostrate. However, if the interval is long, the opportunity is missed.' [Rawdat al-Talibin Vol.1/P.323].
 
Furthermore, the prostration of recitation becomes obligatory (Wajib) in congregational prayer if the Imam prostrates, out of the necessity of following him. And Allah the Exalted knows best.

Is it permissible for a woman to perform the obligatory prayer immediately after the adhan and before the Iqamah is performed in the mosque?

 

Praise be to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon our Master, the Messenger of Allah.
 
Yes, it is permissible for a woman to perform the obligatory (Fard) prayer immediately after the Adhan (call to prayer) and before the Iqamah (call to commence prayer) is performed in the mosque. And Allah the Exalted knows best.

What is the ruling on praying seated due to severe obesity, given that I experience hardship in performing the prayer — especially when rising from the ground after sujūd to perform the next rak‘ah?

All praise is due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon our master, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ.
Standing, when one is able to do so, is a pillar of the prayer. However, whoever would experience severe, intolerable hardship, or fears harm to himself or to a limb due to obesity, or finds that standing causes him to lose his khushū‘ (humble focus and concentration) in prayer, then there is no objection to his praying seated on a chair or on the ground, performing rukū‘ (bowing) and sujūd (prostration) through gesture — provided that the gesture for sujūd is made lower than that for rukū‘. Whoever is able, at any point, to properly perform any one of these pillars, is obligated to perform it in full; for omitting it is a concession that applies only in cases of genuine inability. The Prophet ﷺ said: "When I command you to do something, do of it whatever you are able." (Related by al-Bukhārī). As the scholars of fiqh have established: what remains possible is not waived on account of what is difficult.
The criterion for determining genuine inability, as chosen by Imam al-Ḥaramayn al-Juwaynī (raḥimahullāh), is that the worshipper experiences hardship that causes him to lose his khushū‘.
As for voluntary (nafl) prayer, there is no objection to performing it while seated, even if one is able to stand. However, rukū‘ and sujūd must still be performed [in their proper physical form] by anyone who is able to do so. And Allah, the Exalted, knows best.